Originally Posted by
remy
To the contrary...anything is allowed !
Lack of confidence is what will lead to lack of tolerance...rules appear, boundaries, limits, ideas, opinions...aren't we talking about pushing those ?
True confidence allows interactions to wander, to take other forms, to digress to any level necessary, and to understand that being judgmental is an inherent part of the functioning of our information gathering and treating minds, without letting this mind govern our intentions.
"Inappropriate" becomes an idea.
Judgment a tool.
Digression a means.
Wandering a must.
Allowing a corner stone.