Please, let me explain myself:
I have quite a few obese friends. Not overweight...obese. I love them, deeply! We go out to eat all the time, and we never talk about "weight". It's a sore subject for them and I can't (and never do) say anything about it they don't already know. They order their crap, and I order mine.
I only mention it here because it's a "survival" forum. And because I find a contradiction in prepping to survive in all ways but the one that really counts. The ground zero of survival, as it were. So...forgive me...never meant to offend or preach. I just really care about you, that's all.