Originally Posted by
SARKY
Max,
I am an NRA certified handgun instructor. That being said, I've seen exactly what you are talking about, and not just by the sales people in the gunshops, but also by their boyfriends or husbands who really want a gun they like.
1: Is this gun going to be your baby (what I mean is will it be your gun only?)
2: Have you thought about a revolver?
Although the safety record on semiautos is much better than it was in the past, a double action revolver is in essence inert until you pick it up and pull the trigger. I doesn't rely on magazines (to hold the ammo, it doesn't take a lot of muscle to rack the slide). If you are unfamiliar with firearms, this is the safest option (the gun is stress and idiot proof). As to caliber, I would suggest a .357 magnum, why, because you can shoot .38 special rounds in it (which is cheaper and less punishing on you) and you still have the option of shooting .357 mag ammo. Double action revolvers are avilable in very compact sizes to monsters and in the .357 mag chambering they are available in 5, 6, 7, and 8 round capacities.
If you have any specific questions feel free to ask.