Been there done that and lost the t-shirt...but worth it in the long run. I did not know life was so much fun. Was divorced in 2001, met a lady in 2004, and have lived happily ever after. When I left I took the car, my tools and guns, the bills, and left her the rest (we owned our home), fought for rights to my daughter (won), and started life over. It was hard, for a bit, but worth it. Good luck....