Anthony, I have 67 years of being screwed over, abused and misused.
Most of that occurred because I did not close out and move on.
If you have found your "soul mate" separate yourself from the pack you once ran with and sort through a new bunch of friends that have the same moral fiber and goals you and your GF/wife share.
The FB problem is your X and your former friends messing with your mind! They are living rent free in your head. Evict them, close the account and quit punishing yourself for living a safe and happy life with someone that loves you for who you are now.
As for the old long term friends. I can only relate that I had a boyhood friend I grew up with. We were closer than I was to my brothers. When he turned 22 he found a new GF, moved half way around the world and I have not seen him since 1973. That is how much he ws worried about me! I survived the loss, came to understand the fact that people grow up and move away.
In fact, you may find that your BF would stab you in the back without hesitation now that his life has become controlled by his vises.
Ever wondered how many times he has been with your X-GF? Bet you have! Bet he has!
Drop them all, close the FB account and move on.
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