Ok.. I just needed to vent, and you folks don't seem to mind so much since I usually pass along some ideal or whatever, but this past week has really taught me a lot about myself and how different I am from the people that surround me on a regular basis.
So my dad killed an 11 point buck a few weeks ago when he and I went hunting together. I helped him drag it out of the woods. We came to my house to the "hangin' tree" and I skinned it for him and quartered it up. It's my dad so no charge, right?
Well, I really did it so that I could have the skin and brains. Fair enough.. BUT.
He gave the whole deer away. To quote him, "I gave it to them ni....s at work, hahaha". Didn't offer me or my uncle or my grandmother (his mom too), or anyone in the family the meat. Said it was too tough and gristly and musky from the rut...
Well, you see. I have this idea, that if we live more simply, we don't need as much money to find our "comforts", like supper. I hunt hard during season to stock up on food for the coming year. That reduces the grocery expenses so I am not forced to spend my time making money. My dad knows this.
I also process my own meats. If I had to fork over $100+ for every deer I killed, I would go broke.
Don't you know I would have made room in the freezer for that deer?
The only thing my father wanted off that deer was the horns. He had absolutely no intention of using any other single part of the deer. He had no intention of eating any of it. He killed that magnificent animal for pride and glory, and I'm telling you right here and now that I am NOTHING like my father. These are the kinds of men who need to go to church and ask forgiveness for having absolutely NO RESPECT FOR THE GOOD LORD'S CREATION. Every time I've seen my dad in the last two weeks, he's had to show those horns, and every time he shows them in my presence, I point out "That's way more horns than I can eat in a year".
So I was out in the chop shop yesterday hand stretching the skin I'm making the video's with when he pulled up in the yard. He laughed and made smartass comments about all the work I was putting into it. He said "That's wanting something bad".
I pointed out that it was Sunday and this is my time with the Lord, showing my appreciation for the life of an animal that was taken callously and with no respect.. As if I were performing the penance for his actions. He got a little ill about it and I replied "You spend 5 days a week trading your time to your boss to make a paycheck, when you could be out doing something for yourself and appreciating the world we've been given, only to go home at night and sit idly in front of the tv doing NOTHING. Then you go trade that money for whatever it is you want, no matter the effect it has on the earth because "I won't be around to see it"... newsflash:
I might be.
Your grandkids might be.
You want to know why the world is going to hell in a handbasket?
It's because men like him don't give a damn about anything but 'outdoing the joneses'. "Look what I have. I bet you don't have one as nice as this."
Pride and glory have taken (by force) a front seat and humility and respect have had to move to the back of the bus.
This is the man who raised me, yet we are complete opposites. I don't kill things I don't intend to eat. I take no pride or glory in killing.
I was going to tan this skin out and give it to him as a throw/blanket for his easy chair, or fix it so he could wear it as a shawl for extra warmth. I've decided since he didn't want any of the rest of the deer, that I'll keep it. He didn't have any appreciation whatsoever for the deer and didn't want to keep any of the rest of it, so I'll make use of what little I got to keep.
My uncle is basically the same way (they are brothers). We hunt together all the time. When he kills a deer he get's all excited and giggly. I normally want to cry and usually shed at least one tear for the animal.
I don't know how many deer he has watched me skin, but I promise you one thing.. He had no idea how to skin the last deer he killed. He apparently cannot learn by watching, nor doing, or either he doesn't give a damn either. If you hand him a knife, he's going to scrape bone with it (at 50 yrs old, still don't know how to use a knife), slice the skin to shreds, waste all the meat that isn't easily available, like hams backstraps and shoulders, and the rest is going to the yotes.
Then he's ready to go back and kill another. Always in a hurry to kill more.
Over the last few weeks, I've lost a lot of respect for people that I thought were deserving of respect. Through my growing love of all things primitive (and just doing things for myself) I realize that my affections were seriously misplaced. For 31 years now, I've looked up to the wrong people.
Why is it all these years, whenever they took interest in something, be it boats, or guns, or fishing, or trucks, or (you name it) I tried to show interest in it, yet when I'm knapping or tanning, I'm left all alone. Nobody shows interest and usually make a mockery of me and my ways. I'm left with only my kids and wife to even hold the camera for me.
I've been tanning for a few years now and in those years I've only had two other people come to my house with any sort of interest in any of the things I do. One of them is my wife's brother. My neighbor's adopted kids have come to me this week asking for help with their hides.
They asked me "What do you charge to tan a deer with the fur on"
"I don't charge anything but your time"
"What do you mean?"
"I'd rather show you how to tan your own skins. 'Give a man a fish, and all that."
"We don't have the tools"
"I'll be glad to let you use my tools"
.. I have not seen them since
It would appear that I'm unique. No, I'm not special. I'm different just like everyone else.
I'm not a product of my raising. I am a product of my own experiences.
Thank you for putting up with my little rant.
Be respectful of the world we live in. We all live here with His little creatures, and since they are the closest thing we will ever witness to true freedom, be humble. There is absolutely no joy to be taken in the taking of a life, man nor beast.
Tread lightly on the earth.
Those who seek their rewards in this life, shall have them.
Those who are meek shall have their rewards after this life.
People disgust me. Especially my old man.
I was sitting in the stand last week when a little yearling walked out into the area, all alone. I raised the gun just long enough to realize how small the deer was, and I lowered the gun to my lap and said "Today is not your day". I asked the good Lord to keep that baby deer in the area where I was hunting because I knew there were more hunters out there like my dad and uncle who are just trigger happy murderers. I knew the little baby would be safe there with me.
I wondered if it was alone because I killed it's mother the previous week.
I watched the little deer for about 30 minutes before it meandered off into the distance. I bawled like a child as it left and waited all day to hear the gunshot of some hunter who couldn't resist the chance to kill.
I never did hear anyone shoot. Amen.
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