tsitenha - The Chinese have a saying, "if you have a problem with another man look inside yourself for the answer."
The first step is yours. Accept him for who he is and be proud that he has chosen his own road. It doesn't mean that he will never chose the same path but for this time in his life his road is different. You can dislike what he does but love who he is unconditionally. You obviously raised him to be an independent soul capable of taking care of himself and, apparently, he is.
The next time you are with him give him a hug and tell him you love and respect him. I'll bet you find an entirely different relationship and one that you both can learn from.
If you are still concerned that your ways will be lost in him then write them down. It will be something all your future children will cherish as well. And who knows, some day he may pick up that book and start to learn from you whether you are here or not.
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