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hayshaker
05-20-2018, 09:40 PM
well just thought i'd jump in and see what's up
on the fourm. i recieved a notice that iv'e not posted in some weeks.
well thing is i've been very busy,at home.
my wifes failing health has taken all my attention. so not a lot t say i guess.
though the one nurse at the hospital said your going to be a RN before long.
while at the hosp the nurses had me doing all thier work on the wife minus
IV"s of course. preping me for when i had to bring her home.
so now i do all the things they taught me,


to say my plate is full is an understatement.
I will try when able to drop in and give a shout.

Alan R McDaniel Jr
05-20-2018, 10:56 PM
You're a good man (I'm thinking she knows that by now). You've got a hard job ahead of you. Don't be too proud to ask your friends and neighbors for help. Sometimes folks don't know how they need to help. You've got to ask them. Once they find out they can help you they'll be over there all the time.

Alan

Alan R McDaniel Jr
05-20-2018, 11:00 PM
I've had #1 wife for almost 42 years now. She's likely the most aggravating woman on the planet. I love her dearly and will take care of her to my dying breath. That's what husbands are supposed to do. Thanks for being one of those guys.

Alan

Rick
05-21-2018, 05:14 AM
Being a care giver is an exhausting job no matter how much you are devoted to doing it. Listen to Alan's advice and accept help. You need breaks often. I hope your wife's health improves. Good luck.

madmax
05-21-2018, 06:40 AM
I know you're treading water Mikey. Prayers for strength sent.

hayshaker
05-21-2018, 08:49 AM
Thanks everyone, after 10yrs of this the inlaws are finally
pitching in as in doing shopping runs now and again.
you try not to think about it, you just do it,
cause ah nevermind,i can't find my stethescope
so i'll get one today. another tool in the box i guess.